What you – as parents – model about the church, its teachings and sacraments generally makes a deep impression on your child. As parents you have two valuable tools to help you prepare your child for this awesome experience – your relationship with your child and your experience with the Sacraments. Your child’s first experience of the sacrament will set the stage for what should become a lifetime of experiencing God’s unconditional love in this great tradition of our faith.
 
The Sacrament of Reconciliation is a reminder of God’s great love for each and every one of us – no matter what we do or fail to do. Set an example for your child by going to Confession yourself during the time your child is preparing for the Sacrament and continue this practice. 
 
The Sacrament of Eucharist "is, you might say, an entire summary of our faith wrapped up in a single moment where Christ acts to express that Divine Love which he revealed in his life and death and which is now sustained by the Spirit of Love” [CCC 1326-27]. Set an example for your child by attending mass regularly as a family and receiving Communion. Try sitting up close so your child can see what is taking place. Help them follow along in the misalette for the responses and to join in the hymns that are sung. It is important that your child observes you praying and worshipping God at mass.

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First Reconciliation is typically celebrated early in the Spring semester, while First Eucharist is celebrated the second Sunday after Easter. Dates will be published to children who have signed up to receive First Sacraments. 

First Sacraments Registration Form
 

READINESS for Sacramental preparation is indicated by:

• Baptism  (certificate should be provided if not baptized at St. Mary Church)
• Regular attendance and participation in religion class, either through Children's Faith Formation or at St. Mary School
• Regular attendance and participation in formation sessions at the day school or Sunday morning classes
• Regular participation in Sunday liturgy
• A desire for the Sacraments on the part of the child

Traditionally, when a child enters the second grade and has all the readiness indications above, we begin preparation for reception of First Sacraments. However, if your child is older than second grade and is ready to begin preparations, contact Teresa Foulks and she will help guide you through the process. 

If you are looking for more resources to share with your child, please check out Dynamic Catholic's series called Blessed which has wonderful videos geared for children. 

Check out our parish webpages to learn more about the Sacraments. 
Eucharist
Reconciliation

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Act of Contrition
Help your child memorize this prayer as they prepare for First Reconciliation. It is very important that they know it by heart! 
 
My God, I am sorry for my sins with all my heart.
In choosing to do wrong and failing to do good, I have sinned against you
whom I should love above all things.
I firmly intend, with your help, to do penance, to sin no more,
and to avoid whatever leads me to sin.
Our Savior Jesus Christ suffered and died for us.
In his name, my God, have mercy.
 
Amen.